Friday 31 December 2021

The year of melancholy thinking


The year in brief:

via GIPHY

Blah, Blah, Blah.

I was tempted to stop there. Greta Thunberg’s words say it all. Anything else is just description.

I could talk about another year of living in fear, and another year of being lied to, and a second pandemic year which is different from the first one because this time we’re not all in it together.

Wednesday 29 December 2021

A year, some books, accidental learning

 

A pile of books: Funny Weather by Olivia Laing, David Copperfield by Charles Dickens, Life Without Children by Roddy Doyle, Treacle Walker by Alan Garner.
December's books. Guess which one's for book group.

In 2021 I made a new year resolution that I kept. This might be a first. It was to read four books a month.

It doesn’t sound much, and it’s nothing compared to people like Andy Miller, but it gave me the chance to tackle a bit of the feeling I get of “so many books, so little time” every time I go on Books Twitter.

Actually I’ve averaged five. I could have read more, but I don’t live alone, and I feel obliged to spend Quality Time with my husband occasionally.

I can read fast – I sometimes finish a book in one or two sittings – but I don’t think reading fast is necessarily a good thing. It dawned on me some time this year that the time spent reading a book is longer than the time you are physically looking at the pages. There’s the time you spend processing it afterwards. If I ate up books at the rate I did as a child, or went from one book straight to another, I’d lose that. 

Thursday 2 December 2021

Our family and autism: emotions, thoughts, facts

 

Screengrab from the Open University website, with BBC and Open University logos and the text: "Paddy and Christine McGuinness: Our Family and Autism. Paddy and Christine's family is impacted by autism. Join them on a raw, intimate journey meeting parents, experts and others on the spectrum."

Last night I watched Our Family and Autism, a BBC One documentary in which Paddy and Christine McGuinness talked about their experience of having three autistic children. It was widely trailed as a heart-warming documentary. For some of us it was more like heart-sinking.