My first autism reading list was given to me after I got my “diagnosis”. My second reading list is books I found myself. These are some of the books that have come out since I found out I was autistic. And they are all by autistic writers. There’s much more now, and more being published all the time.
As Joanne Limburg says in Letters to My Weird Sisters about learning from other lives, “I realised that other people had experienced the same kinds of painful moments and for the same reasons.”
There is so much I identify with when reading about other people’s experiences, especially women. Especially the older ones.
In a world where so many "experts" and researchers still get it wrong (and where the "diagnostic manual" trades in deficits) there's a notable amount of consistency in the way that #ActuallyAutistic people describe their own experiences among themselves.